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Impotence Can Be Fun!..?
A Terribly Important and Socially Relevant Article by Julia
Tragedy of males species. Affront to sexual intimacy. Affliction upon the rich & poor
alike...yes, I am talking about....
Impotence!
Scary subject...one that makes you guys say "EWWW, Jules, we do NOT wish to handle
that subject today." Well, listen up, boys, we are addressing the Scourge of Mankind
and doing it now, but guess what, this is aimed at helping your ladies deal with the
"problem", not you, for once. So stick a sock in it (ow)! Sit back and let the
wimmenfolk have our discussion. Not that we're not grateful for the many subjects Bill and
Dave have dealt with, BUT....
Any sensitive partner realizes that periods or episodes of impotence can be devastating to
the male ego. Barring physical problems - prostate, hypertension, adverse reactions to
medications, let's face it....STUFF HAPPENS. And it happens when we least expect it so it
really behooves us to be ready to react in a way that encourages and uplifts (sorry, guys)
our partner. Hoping things will clear up is not the way. Ignoring the problem is not the
way.
I'm not going to get into an extensive clinical/psychological study here; there are books
aplenty out there. In my experience, impotence that has no medical cause can be dealt with
using:
Love
Patience
Laughter
Yes, laughter, as gross as that may seem! If you can relax enough with your lover to the
point of being comfortable enough to actually make love, you certainly should be relaxed
enough by then to inject a little humor into the situation - not the "Ho ho ho, here
we go again", type of attitude, but the "Hey, it's okay, let's work with this
and have as much fun with it as we can!", attitude. It helps to look at an impotent
episode as an opportunity rather than a disaster. Yes, opportunity! An opportunity to show
your lover that you accept him in any way, shape or form. An opportunity to give your
lover as much pleasure as he can take without expectations of something in return.
Clinically speaking, a male is capable of an orgasm without the benefit of an erection -
but this isn't widely known, since so many couples tend to give up at the first sign of
trouble.
Personally speaking.... although I don't welcome impotence as a regular part of our
lovemaking, I do cherish the time we have as a way to show my lover how very precious he
is to me. When his first instinct is "Oh, well", mine is "Let's keep
going".
Time and space and good taste are going to keep me from directly addressing "What to
do for your lover". We at Liberated Christians are committed to keeping away from the
tease and titillation that permeates other publications - but I would like to offer any
help I can on a private level.
Peace & Love!
Julia
Every Man's Worst Sexual Fear: IMPOTENCE !
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