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Impotence Can Be Fun!..?
A Terribly Important and Socially Relevant Article by Julia
Tragedy of males species. Affront to sexual intimacy. Affliction upon the rich & poor alike...yes, I am talking about....
Scary subject...one that makes you guys say "EWWW, Jules, we do NOT wish to handle that subject today." Well, listen up, boys, we are addressing the Scourge of Mankind and doing it now, but guess what, this is aimed at helping your ladies deal with the "problem", not you, for once. So stick a sock in it (ow)! Sit back and let the wimmenfolk have our discussion. Not that we're not grateful for the many subjects Bill and Dave have dealt with, BUT....
Any sensitive partner realizes that periods or episodes of impotence can be devastating to the male ego. Barring physical problems - prostate, hypertension, adverse reactions to medications, let's face it....STUFF HAPPENS. And it happens when we least expect it so it really behooves us to be ready to react in a way that encourages and uplifts (sorry, guys) our partner. Hoping things will clear up is not the way. Ignoring the problem is not the way.
I'm not going to get into an extensive clinical/psychological study here; there are books aplenty out there. In my experience, impotence that has no medical cause can be dealt with using:
Yes, laughter, as gross as that may seem! If you can relax enough with your lover to the point of being comfortable enough to actually make love, you certainly should be relaxed enough by then to inject a little humor into the situation - not the "Ho ho ho, here we go again", type of attitude, but the "Hey, it's okay, let's work with this and have as much fun with it as we can!", attitude. It helps to look at an impotent episode as an opportunity rather than a disaster. Yes, opportunity! An opportunity to show your lover that you accept him in any way, shape or form. An opportunity to give your lover as much pleasure as he can take without expectations of something in return.
Clinically speaking, a male is capable of an orgasm without the benefit of an erection - but this isn't widely known, since so many couples tend to give up at the first sign of trouble.
Personally speaking.... although I don't welcome impotence as a regular part of our lovemaking, I do cherish the time we have as a way to show my lover how very precious he is to me. When his first instinct is "Oh, well", mine is "Let's keep going".
Time and space and good taste are going to keep me from directly addressing "What to do for your lover". We at Liberated Christians are committed to keeping away from the tease and titillation that permeates other publications - but I would like to offer any help I can on a private level.
Peace & Love!
Every Man's Worst Sexual Fear: IMPOTENCE !
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